Diet during the menopause

Diet during the menopause

The majority of menopausal women complain about weight problems. Reasons for overweight should be seen as multi-factorial and must be looked at individually.

The majority of menopausal women complain about weight problems. Reasons for overweight should be seen as multi-factorial and must be looked at individually. Factors such as stress, lack of exercise and time shortages vary greatly from woman to woman. Some factors such as the breakdown of muscle mass, decelerated metabolism and reduced oestrogen production affect every woman. A harmonious trio of healthy diet, regular exercise and sufficient relaxation form a healthy lifestyle.

What should you eat?

A healthy diet is characterised by plant-based, fibre-rich diversity. Wholegrain products such as wholegrain bread, pasta or rice are the focus here. Furthermore, your meal plan should include fresh fruit, vegetables and raw vegetable salad several times a day. Here, the energy density is particularly low, with simultaneous, high nutrient density. Animal protein should be consumed in moderation. Marine fish, meanwhile, can be consumed twice a week without any worries. Otherwise, you should opt for vegetable oils and fats in your fat consumption. For carbohydrates, you should pay attention to long-chain carbohydrates, as is the case with wholegrain products. These take longer to digest and make you feel fuller for longer. Avoid excessive consumption of industrial sugar. As a basis, you should always keep in mind: consume the freshest possible, regional products, with as little processing as possible and in their natural form. Also make sure to follow a varied diet.

Protein is underestimated

The natural loss of muscle mass increases the focus on protein consumption. Protein is essential for the body and counteracts the breakdown of muscles. Good sources of protein are fish, lean meat, nuts, milk and dairy products, pulses and wholegrain products. Be aware that the consumption of protein always needs to be looked at in combination with exercise. You can best counteract the loss of muscle mass if you exercise regularly.

Eating habits

One of the main causes of facial complaints are our eating habits. Stick to a few ground rules to understand and notice better what your body needs and how much it needs.

Pursue a conscious diet; this means that you should take time for your meals. Do not eat at your desk, but even leave the office if possible. Getting out into the fresh air not only boosts your mood, but you also exercise at the same time and can do something for your vitamin D levels.

Cook for yourself as often as you can, such as with your family or partner. In this way, you will know exactly what is in your food and can regulate it better. During preparation, make sure to stew and steam instead of deep-frying and frying. And if you do not want to give up the snacks: Snack right after your main meal, when your blood sugar level is already elevated. Snacks in between throw your blood sugar out of whack and cause ravenous hunger attacks.

The time of the meals plays a key role, but is heavily dependent on individual strategies. Anyone who, for example, practices intermittent fasting, severely limits the time of their meals automatically. In general, you should not eat too late and in the evening, should instead go for something light. If you come home late with ravenous hunger and then properly dig in, then you have forgotten to eat enough during the day. Try to avoid these moments. Not only do you sleep more poorly on a full stomach, but your body also no longer burns the calories and stores them instead.

What can I do about menopausal complaints?

Hot flushes and sweat outbreaks are among the most common menopausal complaints. Especially here, you can easily counteract these with some small tricks. Avoid excessive consumption of coffee, black tea and alcohol. Spicy meals should also be avoided. Instead, season using fresh herbs.

And very important: Drink enough throughout the day, at least 2 to 3 litres a day. Diluted fruit juices, mineral water, unsweetened herbal or fruit tea are ideal.

Offset the trend with sport

Many women experience during the menopause: “I eat just like I used to, but I’m gaining weight.” And that is exactly where the problem is. As we get older, our basal metabolic rate falls. This is part of the energy that our body burns during absolute rest. If the basal metabolic rate falls, but our diet stays the same, our energy balance goes into the positive – and that is what we want to urgently avoid. Because the target at the end of the day is always a negative energy balance – the so-called calorie deficit – if you want to lose weight.

Factors that influence the energy balance are:

  • Basal metabolic rate
  • Active metabolic rate (physical exercise)
  • Diet

The more exercise I integrate into my everyday life, the lower my energy balance is. That is what we want to achieve. By the way: Muscle mass significantly influences the energy balance. The more muscles you have, the more energy the body burns at rest. For this reason, strength training is always a key component in reducing weight, along with its many other positive effects. This means you should train major muscle groups such as back, legs and buttocks.

One positive side effect of physical activity is also that the feeling of saturation is perceived more strongly with meals, stress is reduced and the appetite impulse is lowered.

The menopause and interpersonal relationships

The menopause and interpersonal relationships

The hormonal rollercoaster of the menopause can thoroughly affect a woman’s world of emotions. Those around you simply notice that you are different and behaving differently than you did before the menopause. Which is why today, we want to talk to you about interpersonal relationships and look into the question of whether and how the menopause can influence them.

Perhaps another note to start: Around two-thirds of all women have no or only few complaints during the menopause, with only one-third suffering the effects of the menopause. Particularly for this group, the article below should help to raise awareness of the topic and offer ideas for actively dealing with the situation.

Let us start with the external impact, whether in your partnership, family, friendship group, at work or otherwise in life. The range of effects of hormonal changes is vast and ranges from a more irritated to insecure demeanour or can be associated with situations incredibly uncomfortable for you.

For example, if you go red due to hot flushes in moments where they are not at all needed, or if you experience excessive sweating during important meetings at work. The often observed lack of sleep is also not without consequences: You become more nervous, more easily irritable and less resilient. Depressive moods can set in during the menopause and you no longer feel so laidback, are less optimistic and may withdraw more.

Those around you will usually register this and will probably ask or wonder what is wrong, because they have never seen you like that over the years. Of course, you could say, they might think you are going through the menopause – it is entirely normal at a certain age.

It is better to address the subject of menopause actively. Be open about the fact that you are in the menopause and currently have certain challenges to overcome. Be transparent that you are currently living with a hormonal rollercoaster and your body is pulling the strings. You can also talk about your problems, worries and desires in a familiar and closer environment. Only in this way will those around you gain an understanding of your current situation and be able to support you during this phase in an ideal way.

A second point concerns your role as a partner and mother. Usually, when women enter the menopause, children are becoming adults, are sooner or later going to leave the parental home and the familiar constellations from the years are changing. It is not rare for your own parents or parents-in-law to need more support. That is, not only your hormone levels, but also your familiar family life is often about to transition to a new phase at the same time.

Of course, you cannot simply pull a solution out of a hat. First, you need to be clear about where you and how you see your future role. It is possible that nothing or only little will change for you. However, sometimes partnerships can be put to the test and then it is worth talking to your partner to find a common solution again.

One special aspect in the partnership is the effects on sexuality, especially when you have enjoyed an intact sex life thus far. During the menopause, you may experience vaginal dryness, making sexual intercourse uncomfortable. It is not rare for this to result in an avoidance strategy results, where even an actually harmless kiss can become a problem if there are mistaken intentions at intimacy.

Here too, an honest word is sensible, especially as men are usually not as well informed about the menopause and its effects on sexuality. You can simply talk about the cause and make it clear that it is not a personal rejection, but rather to do with the menopause. This phenomenon may go away again; more than a few women will experience a second sexual awakening during or after the menopause.

With less severe complaints, vaginal gels, preferably from the pharmacy, can be tried, which improve vaginal moisture and can also be used as a lubricant.

With pronounced symptoms, vaginal dryness should be treated, as it increases susceptibility for infections with bacteria and fungi, as well as bladder infections. It is best to have an open conversation with your gynaecologist about whether prescriptive medication for vaginal application is an option for you. These vaginal creams and depositories usually contain hormones, but like with cortisone-based creams, they only work locally and have a waning effect on your hormonal balance.

Our advice: The menopause is a time of transition in many ways. Try to make the best of it by staying true to yourself and communicating openly about how the hormonal changes are affecting you and your behaviour. This is the best way to get you through this occasionally tumultuous time.

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