What you should be aware of with vaginal gel

What you should be aware of with vaginal gel

Almost half of all menopausal and post-menopausal women develop what is known as genitourinary syndrome of menopause along with its negative effects on quality of life and sex life.

The drop in oestrogen level prevents the interior and exterior walls of the vagina from being supplied optimally, causing them to rescind. A vulvovaginal atrophy (VVA) can arise, which usually goes hand in hand with vaginal dryness and can take the form of itching, burning and pain during intercourse. In addition, it can lead to disruptions in bladder function, such as bladder weakness, urinary incontinence or bladder infection.

Despite being so widespread, little information is available about the problem of vaginal dryness. Only few women seek medical advice, most likely out of embarrassment. According to recent surveys, not even half of all menopausal women have done something to treat their vaginal dryness. But a range of over-the-counter (i.e. hormone-free) and prescription (i.e. hormonal) remedies are available.

The issue is not about whether or not to use hormones in the treatment, but rather to actually get treated. A more recent clinical study found that every form of treatment – regardless of whether hormonal or not – relieves the vaginal complaints of vaginal dryness and the treatment should mainly align with the patient’s individual preferences.1

What you need to know about vaginal moisturisers

Vaginal moisturisers are an effective treatment option for vaginal dryness, especially for women who would prefer to stay away from the use of hormonal preparations and are looking for a natural, hormone-free remedy. Vaginal moisturisers reduce friction with thin and dry vaginal tissue, preventing unpleasant burning and itching sensations, as well as infections. Hormone-free vaginal gels are particularly recommended for a typical case of vaginal dryness.

Meanwhile, prescription hormonal vaginal medications are mainly used to tackle more severe forms of vaginal atrophy.

Vaginal moisturisers are not to be confused with lubricants, which are mainly intended for problems with intercourse due to vaginal dryness and are aimed at helping relieve discomfort and pain. Lubricants are therefore only used if needed.

Vaginal gel moisturisers rehydrate dry mucosal tissue and are absorbed by the skin. They stick to the vaginal mucosa and imitate natural vaginal secretion. Vaginal gel moisturisers preserve the moisture and acidic balance of the vagina.

Vaginal gel moisturisers are intended for the non-hormonal relief of vaginal dryness. Depending on the severity of the vaginal dryness, they are applied regularly, either daily or every 2-3 days.

Vaginal gel moisturisers are ideal for women who are not necessarily sexually active but experience discomfort in the everyday and are also ideal for women having painful symptoms during sexual activity.

As vaginal gel moisturisers are used to hydrate the mucosa, they are usually water-based. They contain plant-based or synthetic gelling agents to bind the water to the mucosa. In addition, they can contain a wide range of other excipients to provide the appropriate viscosity, pH buffering and preservation.

What should you be aware of when choosing a suitable vaginal gel?

Not all vaginal gels are the same. The products you can buy in the shops have major differences that you should be aware of.

Why are natural vaginal gels recommended? In general, a product as physiologically similar to the natural vaginal secretion as possible is always recommended, as the use of vaginal medications can quickly lead to irritation to the vulva or inflammatory reactions in the mucosa.2

For this, a product aimed at vaginal application should be as natural as possible and be free from any potentially irritating additives and excipients, or those harmful to tissue. To ensure good compatibility, the osmolality and pH value should be optimally tailored to vaginal requirements.


Why is iso-osmolality important? The North American Menopause Society (NAMS) recommends only using water-based vaginal gels or lubricants which are iso-osmolal, as the barrier function of the vaginal mucosa can otherwise be impaired.3

Simply put, the osmolality determines the distribution of water between different systems. When it comes to vaginal gels, this means: A hyper-osmolar gel attracts water and can lead to mucosal irritations such as burning, a hot sensation and itching in the intimate area. The WHO defines 380 mOsm/kg as an upper limit for the osmolality of vaginal medications in order to minimise the risk of tissue damage.4

Many manufacturers do not specify this value and preparations available to buy far exceed this value. With menoelle® vaginal gel, you can be on the safe side. menoelle® vaginal gel has an osmolality of around 260 mOsm/kg and is thus iso-osmolal for vaginal tissue.


Why is compatibility with the pH value of the vaginal balance necessary?

The pH value is a measure for how acidic or basic a balance is. With a pH value of 3.8–4.5, the vaginal balance is relatively acidic, providing vaginal acid protection against vaginal infections.

the pH value of the vagina. If the pH value is too high or too low, the balance of natural vaginal flora can become disrupted, which can result in irritation or infection. Therefore when buying a vaginal gel, you should pay attention to products which have a compatible pH value, such as menoelle® vaginal gel.


pay attention to these 3 points when buying a vaginal gel:

  1. It should consist of natural components and should contain no or only few additives and excipients (such as parabens).
  2. It should comply with the recommended limits of osmolality.
  3. It should have a pH value compatible with the vaginal balance.

List of sources

(1) Mitchell CM, Reed SD, Diem S, et al. Efficacy of Vaginal Estradiol or Vaginal Moisturizer vs Placebo for Treating Postmenopausal Vulvovaginal Symptoms: A Randomized Clinical Trial. JAMA Intern Med.2018;178(5):681–690.

(2) Behandlung der vulvovaginalen Atrophie/des urogenitalen Menopausensyndroms: Wie wichtig ist die Zusammensetzung von vaginalen Gleitmitteln und Feuchtigkeitscremes?“, erschienen in CLIMACTERIC, 2016 BD. 19, NR. 2, 151–161

(3) The 2020 genitourinary syndrome of menopause position statement of The North American Menopause Society. Menopause. 2020 Sep; 27(9):976-992

(4) Use and procurement of additional lubricants for male and female condoms: Advisory note, WHO/UNFPA/FHI360, 2012

OUR RECOMMENDATION

menoelle® vaginal gel

Quickly relieves vaginal dryness and alleviates irritation, itching and burning.

  • menoelle® vaginal gel is a certified organic, water-based gel moisturiser and provides natural, lasting moisture to dry vaginal mucosa.
  • menoelle® vaginal gel results in effective, fast and lasting relief and ensures well-being in the intimate area.
  • menoelle® vaginal gel uses a patented technology and contains a natural gel adhesive made of plant-based polymers, which sticks to the vaginal walls and provides an up to three day moisture depot.
  • menoelle® vaginal gel was developed for sensitive vaginal flora, is iso-osmolal, has a pH value compatible with the vaginal balance and is free from hormones as well as any chemical ingredients that could be harmful to the skin.

Product details

Hormone-free

Vegan

Organic


Product details

  • A gentle, clear and natural bio-adhesive gel
  • Discreet, non-sticky, colourless, fragrance and taste free.
  • Matches the consistency and feeling of the natural lubrication
  • The correct pH for restoring and maintaining the protective acidity level in the vagina, fosters a healthy vaginal flora
  • Free from hormones
  • Free from any substances known to irritate mucous membranes, and free from ingredients such as glycerine, oil and petroleum-based products, parabens (hormone mimics) that may alter or damage the healthy vaginal flora
  • Gentle and natural, suitable even in cases of extreme sensitivity
  • Guaranteed pure with certified organic status
  • Safe for use with condoms made of latex and polyisoprene
  • Proven by health experts and by women to provide soothing,
  • safe and pleasant relief from the uncomfortable symptoms caused by vaginal dryness during menopause
  • A hormone-free, natural alternative to synthetic and chemical vaginal rehydration gels

Ingredients

Water, linseed extract*, aloe vera*, locust bean gum*, guar gum*, sodium chloride, xanthan gum, potassium sorbate, citric acid, phenoxyethanol.

 

* Certified organic ingredients. 95% organic. International patent protection.


Application

Please note: menoelle® GEL is neither a spermicide nor a contraceptive. Detailed notes on its application can be found in the menoelle® GEL directions for use.

menoelle® GEL is a gentle, clear gel that can be simply applied and distributed with your fingers. You can therefore decide yourself how much and where you wish to apply it.

Application of 5 ml every two to three days is usually enough to keep the vaginal mucosa hydrated and comfortable. In cases of extreme dryness, the gel can initially be used more frequently (1x every one to two days), until there is an improvement.

When used regularly, menoelle® GEL can restore the vagina’s natural acid resistance.

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We show you how to keep your love and sex life alive during the menopause!

We show you how to keep your love and sex life alive during the menopause!

It is surprising how easy it is to refresh your relationship! We have gathered some tips to help you enjoy your best years to the full.

Trust in your partnership!

Have you been living in a relationship for many years? This is a major advantage! Because over the years, trust also grows, and trust is a requirement for carefree sex for most women. There is no need to be ashamed of your desires and you can get your worries off your chest.

Moisturise your vagina!

To counteract vaginal dryness during the menopause and protect against friction during sexual intercourse, we recommend using a vaginal gel. This should be free from fragrances and preservatives! There are now also wonderful, hormone-free alternatives that are especially suitable for the menopause.

Enjoy self-pleasure!

When it comes to love and sex: Keep practicing, even without a partner. Numerous examinations indicate that you not only can balance tension from the stimulation and relaxation brought by climax, but also stimulate your metabolism and your hormone production. Here too, we recommend the use of a natural vaginal gel!

Take plenty of time at the start!

Studies show that menopausal women need more time for foreplay. So enjoy slow tenderness! Be inspired, for example, by Kama Sutra or by slow sex. In no way do you have to “flip through” the entire Kama Sutra to unfold new passion for each other. There are many ideas for how you can restore passion to your sex life.

Be self-determined!

Many women experience love in the second half of their lives in a much more relaxed way – everything is permitted, but not everything is necessary. Set yourself free from “sex pressure” and “orgasm chasing”. Enjoy cuddling – far more men enjoy it that you would think! And if it leads to more, then great.

You are beautiful!

Have you become more critical of yourself over the years? Many women are the same. You need to be aware that those little wrinkles do not have any effects on your sex life.

Accept yourself just as you are!

Because: Self-awareness is SEXY! In numerous psychosexual studies, heterosexual men were asked how they would like their partner to be. Across all age limits, men said that they value self-aware women with a positive attitude to their sexuality!

Comfortable weight during the menopause

Comfortable weight during the menopause

Women often notice that they gain weight during the menopause, and like to blame their hormones. This is only partly true.

Women often notice that they gain weight during the menopause, and like to blame their hormones.

But the age-related weight gain can be counteracted by making a few life changes. The right weight is not only good for the self-confidence of each individual, but a normal weight or moderate overweight also comes with health benefits.

  • Food with low energy content & high nutrient content
    As we get older, above all else, food with a low energy content (and a high nutrient density) should be part of your meal plan. These are usually low-processed foods such as vegetables, salads, pulses, fruit, potatoes, wholegrain products, low-fat dairy products and lean meat. The positive side effect is that these foods have a high nutrient content, especially as important nutrients are no longer absorbed so well when we are older.
  • Proteins for muscle preservation
    Conscious consumption of protein products can partly prevent the breakdown of muscles. This does not always have to be animal protein, as many plant-based foods also contain valuable protein. Good supplies of protein are fish, lean meat, beans, peas, lentils, low-fat milk and dairy products, soy products, nuts and vegetables such as spinach, green beans and broccoli or even cress and mushrooms.
  • Avoid food with high energy density
    For breakfast, readymade muesli or cornflakes, for lunch a quick hamburger, Italian pizza or pasta with creamy sauce and some some nice ciabatta to go with it in the evening. And in between, a few sweets, snacks in front of the TV, perhaps even an alcoholic beverage. Like many other high-processed foods, these calorie bombs usually offer nothing except empty calories and should be enjoyed as sparingly as possible.
  • Sport and exercise
    Moderate sport and sufficient exercise do good in every phase of life. They stimulate the metabolism, increase metabolic rate, boost energy consumption and avoid or reduce overweight. At the same time, sport has a mood-boosting effect; you simply feel better.

Hot flushes during the menopause – What to do?

Hot flushes during the menopause – What to do?

Hitzewallungen, vermehrtes Schwitzen und Nachtschweiß gehören zu den häufigsten Begleiterscheinungen in den Wechseljahren. Hitzewallungen sind eine Reaktion des Körpers auf den sinkenden Östrogenspiegel und treten vor allem in der Anfangszeit der Wechseljahre auf. Im Laufe der Zeit legen sie sich wieder.

Hitzewallungen in den Wechseljahren – viele Frauen werden damit konfrontiert.

Hitzewallungen beginnen meist im Brustbereich und breiten sich wie eine heiße Welle über den Hals und Kopf in die Oberarme aus. Das Herz schlägt schneller und es kann zu Hautrötungen und Schweißausbrüchen kommen. Die Episoden sind üblicherweise relativ kurz und dauern meist nur wenige Minuten, allerdings können sie mehrmals am Tag auftreten. Hitzewallungen sind letztlich vor allem lästig und unangenehm. Was also tun?

Als einfache Regel gilt:
  • Möglichst alles vermeiden, was Hitzewallungen begünstigt. Also sind Genussmittel wie Kaffee, schwarzer Tee, Alkohol und Zigaretten sowie scharfe Gewürze wie Ingwer oder Chili oder auch schweres Essen zu meiden oder reduzieren. Auch Übergewicht kann zu leichterem Schwitzen führen, deshalb ist es günstig, Normalgewicht zu halten oder anzustreben. Und vielleicht hilft es, den Kleidungsstil anzupassen, eine flexible Kleidung (der sogenannte Zwiebellook) lässt sich leichter anpassen als zu warme, dicke Kleidung. Ebenso sind Naturfasern besser geeignet als synthetisches Material.
  • Gleichzeitig für eine gesunde Lebensweise mit ausgewogener Ernährung und mit ausreichend Bewegung und Yoga für Ausgleich und Entspannung sorgen.
    Optimal ist eine leichte Ernährung mit viel Gemüse und Obst und ausreichende Flüssigkeitszufuhr (am besten mindestens 2 Liter Mineralwasser oder ungesüßten Tee täglich). Positiv wirkt sich auch Bewegung und Sport aus, sei es im Alltag (mal auf das Auto oder den Aufzug verzichten) oder beim Walken, Radfahren, Spazierengehen oder Wandern. Zum gezielten Stressabbau und für Entspannung eignen sich beispielsweise Yoga, autogenes Training oder Tai Chi.
  • Tipp bei übermäßigem Schwitzen und Nachtschweiß: Salbei
    Salbei ist als aromatisches Gewürz aus der mediterranen Küche durch Gerichte wie Saltimbocca bekannt. Salbei ist auch eine wertvolle Heilpflanze und hilft nicht nur bei Entzündungen im Mund- und Rachenraum, sondern auch bei vermehrtem Schwitzen. Dazu einfach täglich morgens und abends eine Tasse Salbeitee trinken, wobei gegen Nachtschweiß kalter Salbeitee besser geeignet ist.
BODY AND SOUL
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This time, our brave interview partners talk about specific menopausal complaints.

What can you do for your bone health?

What can you do for your bone health?

Every women should confront this question no later than the menopause, as osteoporosis – a bone disease – occurs in women later and more frequently.

As we get older, bone mass in women and men alike gradually falls, virtually as a normal aging process. More severely pronounced bone dissipation of this nature is called osteoporosis, with the risk of bone breaks increased due to the decrease in bone density. In women, the oestrogen deficiency caused by the menopause is a key risk factor.

Osteoporosis is a slow process and remains undetected for a long time. Only once it has reached an advanced stage does it make itself noticeable through back problems, bone pain and an increased tendency towards bone breaks (mainly from trivial causes). The formation of a rounded back (known as a dowager’s hump) and an associated decrease in size are typical.

Osteoporosis is mainly a female issue: At the age of 50–60 years, 15–20% of women experience osteoporosis, with almost half of women over 70 affected.

There are three main tips you should follow for your bone health:

Healthy bones need calcium and vitamin D3. In particular, dairy products and vegetable varieties such as cabbage, broccoli and fennel are rich in calcium. Some mineral waters also supply notable amounts of calcium (more than 150 mg/l).

Vitamin D3 is not called the sun vitamin for nothing, with the body able to produce around 80% of its requirement by regularly spending time outdoors. Above all, fatty fish, eggs, mushrooms and avocado are rich in vitamin D3.

What’s more: menolle® contains plenty of vitamin D and calcium, meaning you can cover your recommended daily requirement according to European NRV values with 2 capsules a day.


Avoid bone robbers: Coffee, cooking salt, phosphate-based foods (mainly cheese, pulses, fast food and cola) or even laxatives reduce absorption from food, promote excretion or take calcium away from the bones. Tip: Spinach and chard are often cited as good sources of calcium, but they also contain oxalic acid, causing the calcium to be poorly utilised.

Excess nicotine and alcohol consumption also have a detrimental effect on bone health. Several studies have proven that smoking reduces bone density by stimulating bone-degrading substances (known as osteoclasts). Alcohol promotes the elimination of calcium and reduces the formation of vitamin D3 in the liver.


Move your bones: A lack of exercise promotes the formation of osteoporosis, meaning that regular exercise is good for health bones, and is best done in the fresh air – the key word here is the sun vitamin.

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menoelle® menopause tablets can be purchased in dm, Rossmann, Müller, BUDNI and Globus branches.

menoelle® menopause tablets can also be purchased online at menoelle, aponow, dm, Rossmann, Müller, Amazon.

Relaxed through the menopause with yoga

Relaxed through the menopause with yoga

The menopause is – often not only in terms of hormones – a transition to a new phase of life and is a challenge for many women.

The menopause is – often not only in terms of hormones – a transition to a new phase of life and is a challenge for many women.

During this phase, it is all the more important to break down stress and find ways to relax: Yoga, meditation, autogenic training, breathing therapy or Tai Chi, to name the most important options.

Yoga has a calming and balancing effect in many people, particularly due to its breathing exercises and meditation. Physical exercises known as asanas, are the third component of yoga and a good way of improving how you feel in your body. The asanas help to improve posture, flexibility of the movement apparatus and physical endurance. At the same time, the asanas stimulate or improve some physical functions, such as blood circulation, pulmonary function or metabolic processes.

Especially for menopausal women, so-called hormonal yoga is available alongside general yoga.

Hormonal yoga connects physical and breathing exercises which favourably affect the hormonal and mental balance of women during the menopause. Hormonal yoga naturally activates hormone production and at the same time, helps with stress breakdown and relaxation.

Diet during the menopause

Diet during the menopause

The majority of menopausal women complain about weight problems. Reasons for overweight should be seen as multi-factorial and must be looked at individually.

The majority of menopausal women complain about weight problems. Reasons for overweight should be seen as multi-factorial and must be looked at individually. Factors such as stress, lack of exercise and time shortages vary greatly from woman to woman. Some factors such as the breakdown of muscle mass, decelerated metabolism and reduced oestrogen production affect every woman. A harmonious trio of healthy diet, regular exercise and sufficient relaxation form a healthy lifestyle.

What should you eat?

A healthy diet is characterised by plant-based, fibre-rich diversity. Wholegrain products such as wholegrain bread, pasta or rice are the focus here. Furthermore, your meal plan should include fresh fruit, vegetables and raw vegetable salad several times a day. Here, the energy density is particularly low, with simultaneous, high nutrient density. Animal protein should be consumed in moderation. Marine fish, meanwhile, can be consumed twice a week without any worries. Otherwise, you should opt for vegetable oils and fats in your fat consumption. For carbohydrates, you should pay attention to long-chain carbohydrates, as is the case with wholegrain products. These take longer to digest and make you feel fuller for longer. Avoid excessive consumption of industrial sugar. As a basis, you should always keep in mind: consume the freshest possible, regional products, with as little processing as possible and in their natural form. Also make sure to follow a varied diet.

Protein is underestimated

The natural loss of muscle mass increases the focus on protein consumption. Protein is essential for the body and counteracts the breakdown of muscles. Good sources of protein are fish, lean meat, nuts, milk and dairy products, pulses and wholegrain products. Be aware that the consumption of protein always needs to be looked at in combination with exercise. You can best counteract the loss of muscle mass if you exercise regularly.

Eating habits

One of the main causes of facial complaints are our eating habits. Stick to a few ground rules to understand and notice better what your body needs and how much it needs.

Pursue a conscious diet; this means that you should take time for your meals. Do not eat at your desk, but even leave the office if possible. Getting out into the fresh air not only boosts your mood, but you also exercise at the same time and can do something for your vitamin D levels.

Cook for yourself as often as you can, such as with your family or partner. In this way, you will know exactly what is in your food and can regulate it better. During preparation, make sure to stew and steam instead of deep-frying and frying. And if you do not want to give up the snacks: Snack right after your main meal, when your blood sugar level is already elevated. Snacks in between throw your blood sugar out of whack and cause ravenous hunger attacks.

The time of the meals plays a key role, but is heavily dependent on individual strategies. Anyone who, for example, practices intermittent fasting, severely limits the time of their meals automatically. In general, you should not eat too late and in the evening, should instead go for something light. If you come home late with ravenous hunger and then properly dig in, then you have forgotten to eat enough during the day. Try to avoid these moments. Not only do you sleep more poorly on a full stomach, but your body also no longer burns the calories and stores them instead.

What can I do about menopausal complaints?

Hot flushes and sweat outbreaks are among the most common menopausal complaints. Especially here, you can easily counteract these with some small tricks. Avoid excessive consumption of coffee, black tea and alcohol. Spicy meals should also be avoided. Instead, season using fresh herbs.

And very important: Drink enough throughout the day, at least 2 to 3 litres a day. Diluted fruit juices, mineral water, unsweetened herbal or fruit tea are ideal.

Offset the trend with sport

Many women experience during the menopause: “I eat just like I used to, but I’m gaining weight.” And that is exactly where the problem is. As we get older, our basal metabolic rate falls. This is part of the energy that our body burns during absolute rest. If the basal metabolic rate falls, but our diet stays the same, our energy balance goes into the positive – and that is what we want to urgently avoid. Because the target at the end of the day is always a negative energy balance – the so-called calorie deficit – if you want to lose weight.

Factors that influence the energy balance are:

  • Basal metabolic rate
  • Active metabolic rate (physical exercise)
  • Diet

The more exercise I integrate into my everyday life, the lower my energy balance is. That is what we want to achieve. By the way: Muscle mass significantly influences the energy balance. The more muscles you have, the more energy the body burns at rest. For this reason, strength training is always a key component in reducing weight, along with its many other positive effects. This means you should train major muscle groups such as back, legs and buttocks.

One positive side effect of physical activity is also that the feeling of saturation is perceived more strongly with meals, stress is reduced and the appetite impulse is lowered.

The menopause and interpersonal relationships

The menopause and interpersonal relationships

The hormonal rollercoaster of the menopause can thoroughly affect a woman’s world of emotions. Those around you simply notice that you are different and behaving differently than you did before the menopause. Which is why today, we want to talk to you about interpersonal relationships and look into the question of whether and how the menopause can influence them.

Perhaps another note to start: Around two-thirds of all women have no or only few complaints during the menopause, with only one-third suffering the effects of the menopause. Particularly for this group, the article below should help to raise awareness of the topic and offer ideas for actively dealing with the situation.

Let us start with the external impact, whether in your partnership, family, friendship group, at work or otherwise in life. The range of effects of hormonal changes is vast and ranges from a more irritated to insecure demeanour or can be associated with situations incredibly uncomfortable for you.

For example, if you go red due to hot flushes in moments where they are not at all needed, or if you experience excessive sweating during important meetings at work. The often observed lack of sleep is also not without consequences: You become more nervous, more easily irritable and less resilient. Depressive moods can set in during the menopause and you no longer feel so laidback, are less optimistic and may withdraw more.

Those around you will usually register this and will probably ask or wonder what is wrong, because they have never seen you like that over the years. Of course, you could say, they might think you are going through the menopause – it is entirely normal at a certain age.

It is better to address the subject of menopause actively. Be open about the fact that you are in the menopause and currently have certain challenges to overcome. Be transparent that you are currently living with a hormonal rollercoaster and your body is pulling the strings. You can also talk about your problems, worries and desires in a familiar and closer environment. Only in this way will those around you gain an understanding of your current situation and be able to support you during this phase in an ideal way.

A second point concerns your role as a partner and mother. Usually, when women enter the menopause, children are becoming adults, are sooner or later going to leave the parental home and the familiar constellations from the years are changing. It is not rare for your own parents or parents-in-law to need more support. That is, not only your hormone levels, but also your familiar family life is often about to transition to a new phase at the same time.

Of course, you cannot simply pull a solution out of a hat. First, you need to be clear about where you and how you see your future role. It is possible that nothing or only little will change for you. However, sometimes partnerships can be put to the test and then it is worth talking to your partner to find a common solution again.

One special aspect in the partnership is the effects on sexuality, especially when you have enjoyed an intact sex life thus far. During the menopause, you may experience vaginal dryness, making sexual intercourse uncomfortable. It is not rare for this to result in an avoidance strategy results, where even an actually harmless kiss can become a problem if there are mistaken intentions at intimacy.

Here too, an honest word is sensible, especially as men are usually not as well informed about the menopause and its effects on sexuality. You can simply talk about the cause and make it clear that it is not a personal rejection, but rather to do with the menopause. This phenomenon may go away again; more than a few women will experience a second sexual awakening during or after the menopause.

With less severe complaints, vaginal gels, preferably from the pharmacy, can be tried, which improve vaginal moisture and can also be used as a lubricant.

With pronounced symptoms, vaginal dryness should be treated, as it increases susceptibility for infections with bacteria and fungi, as well as bladder infections. It is best to have an open conversation with your gynaecologist about whether prescriptive medication for vaginal application is an option for you. These vaginal creams and depositories usually contain hormones, but like with cortisone-based creams, they only work locally and have a waning effect on your hormonal balance.

Our advice: The menopause is a time of transition in many ways. Try to make the best of it by staying true to yourself and communicating openly about how the hormonal changes are affecting you and your behaviour. This is the best way to get you through this occasionally tumultuous time.

HOPE
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What do women hope from the changes during the menopause and what would they advise younger women?